We don’t have all the answers. But we hope to meet you somewhere along the way!
Novena comes from the Latin word, "novem" and it refers to a group of "nine." Traditionally, it is a nine day prayer, but it can also be a prayer of nine hours, nine days, nine weeks, nine months, or nine years. Also, a novena can simply be nine repetitions of prayers. A novena may include prayers of petition or prayers of thanksgiving.
Novenas can be traced back to the beginning of the Catholic Church, and the first novena is written in Scripture. After Jesus ascended into Heaven, the Blessed Virgin Mary and the apostles spent nine days in prayer: "All these with one accord devoted themselves to prayer, together with the women and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with his brothers" (Acts 1:14).
At the end of this very first novena, the Holy Spirit descended upon them, filling them with supernatural gifts. Praying a novena allows us to ask God for assistance and guidance in a way that connects us to the first foundations of our Church.
This novena has been approved for devotional use, but discovering its historical origin/story has proven to be rather “impossible.” While many priests, religious and lay people have heard of the Novena and/or prayed it, we have yet to find someone who knows where it originated from. We pray to find out more some day!
In Scripture, Jesus teaches us to pray without ceasing. In our lives, we come to God in childlike simplicity asking for what we think that we need, even when it is not in our best interests. At the same time, we try to better understand why God does not always give us what we initially want. This childlike dependence on our Lord is what novenas are all about. Instead of asking once or twice, we keep going back, nine times. Novenas remind us of our neediness and invite us to keep asking, just as Christ told us to do.
The number nine is symbolic and historically significant. Three times three, nine, is a trinity of trinities. Invoking and pondering the number nine during our devotion of a novena reminds us of God the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
However, nine is one shy of ten. In our minds, nine is incomplete. These feelings of being incomplete can only be filled by God. A novena reminds us of our dependency on Christ and it glorifies His greatness.
Nope! Whether or not you are a Catholic, if you are a disciple of Jesus Christ, then Mary is your Mother too. And she wants to pray for ALL her children.
“When Jesus saw His mother and the disciple there whom He loved, He said to His mother, ‘Woman, behold, your son.’ Then He said to the disciple ‘Behold, your mother.’ And from that hour the disciple took her into his home.” John 19: 26-27
As Jesus was dying on the cross, with his last breaths, He gave us His mother to be our mother too. Not only Catholic Christians, but EVERY Christian.
We promise you, Mary will not take away from your relationship with Jesus.
She will only bring you closer to HIM. And that is exactly what we hope to obtain throughout the 9 months of this Novena.
To get to know Jesus better. Who knows Him better than His Mother?! We are simply asking for her help.
“Never be afraid of loving the Blessed Virgin too much. You can never love her more than Jesus did.” // St. Maximilian Kolbe
There is no “right” or “wrong” way to choose a prayer intention. When you ponder this question in a state of prayer, The Holy Spirit will guide your intentions and help you discern what would make for a most fruitful Novena. Spend some time in front of the Blessed Sacrament or offer a Rosary in petition for help choosing intentions. Prayer is the key to prayer!
Some people choose intentions that are more specific, and others choose intentions that are more broad. Both approaches can be fruitful in different ways! It’s a personal preference and we can trust that God will meet us in an intimate way with whichever requests we bring Him. Allow Him to speak to you through the graces and crosses He bestows upon you along the way. Our Lord and Our Lady are resourceful, they will not waste a single prayer or sentiment you offer them from your heart.
When your heart is discouraged, you have little energy for spiritual things, and God feels far away, you are experiencing spiritual desolation. Resist and reject this enemy tactic! Desolation turns us in on ourselves, drains us of our energy, drives us down the spiral ever deeper into our own negative feelings, makes us want to give up on the things that used to be important to us.
In Times of Spiritual Desolation, remember these rules by St. Ignatius:
Rule #5: Never change anything in your spiritual life. For example, if you’ve committed to this Novena and you don’t “feel” like praying, do it anyways. Push through and resist the temptation. The days you push past the discouragement might just be the days you receive the most grace to carry on.
Rule #6: Although in desolation we ought not to change our first resolutions, it is very helpful intensely to change ourselves against the same desolation, as by insisting on more prayer, meditation, on much examination, and by giving ourselves more scope in some suitable way of doing penance
Rule #7: Think of this truth. God is giving me all the grace I need to get safely through this desolation
Rule #8: Be patient, stay the course, and remember that consolation will return much sooner than the desolation is telling you.
We will all miss a day at some point, that is life. Our Lord & Our Lady understand our hearts and our sincere intentions. However, it’s important to set ourselves up for a successful prayer routine in advance, with anticipatory plans for the days when we know we will be busy (remember, we will have audio prayers available! Hopefully this will help keep you on track on busier days.)
If you miss a day, we recommend “doubling up” the next day. Not because Our Lady “requires” them…she doesn’t. We recommend doubling up the next day because it’s what is best for YOU. Remaining disciplined in the spiritual life keeps your mind and heart focused on God, and such discipline is essential for engaging in spiritual warfare when it arises.
On the days you “double up", perhaps you can do one set of Novena prayers in the morning, and one in the evening. Split them up! Pray along while you’re driving, doing dishes, laundry or going for a walk. You can offer up whatever task you are doing along with your prayers. Don’t be afraid to use the audio prayers!
We believe that your prayers don’t need to be said “perfectly”, on your knees, in a quiet peaceful setting to be powerful. But when the effort is made to pray them each day, and they’re said from the heart, you will surely see the graces flow in your life.
Our Lord and Our Lady understand life’s circumstances and you can trust that they are extending great mercy and grace during these times. Here is a suggestion (not a requirement). Wouldn’t it be really cool if someone prayed on your behalf? What if you were to invite a loved one to pray these novena prayers for you for a few days since you will be unable to? You can give them the prayers with your intentions (if you feel comfortable with that) and ask them to do the prayers for you until you are able to resume again. What a unique opportunity to invite a loved one into this prayer community, even if just for a short time. Please know that this community is lifting you in prayer!
This is something that should be taken to prayer between you and The Lord. There are several reasons you may want to change your petition mid way through, and we will address them here. Ultimately, you should take this to prayer and discern what is best for your spiritual life.
You want to change your petition because your prayer was answered. Wonderful! We still recommend keeping the original intention, but just shift your focus a bit. For example…let’s say you prayed for someone to be cured of cancer. And they were! Instead of changing to an entirely new intention, continue praying for that same person. You can offer your prayers with a heart of thanksgiving for the rest of the Novena. When the prayers prompt you to “state your intention,” you can pray for the person to realize God’s glory in their healing. You can pray that their faith may be deepened through the experience. (These are just examples of how you can alter your same prayer intention)
You want to change your petition because the prayers feel dry. Remember the rules of St. Ignatius we discussed above. Never make a change in a state of desolation. If you prayed for guidance choosing intentions before the start of the novena and you were led to this intention, try to continue this intention for as long as possible. It’s possible that this sense of desolation is a tactic of the enemy to convince you to quit or give up on an intention. Persevering in such situations would bear beautiful fruit. If you are still feeling led to change your intention when you are in a state of “consolation”, take it to prayer and discern where God is leading you.
You want to change petitions because a more “emergent” prayer request has come up and the Novena has already begun. While this is a thoughtful consideration, we would typically recommend sticking with the original intentions you chose. Of course, there are exceptions and God has unique plans for each of us. TAKE IT TO PRAYER. Ask The Lord what He wants you to pray for. If you feel you need to change your intention for something dire/emergent (aka a life threatening diagnosis or critical situation), please go to Adoration to receive the peace and clarity you need. Jesus will reassure you of what your ongoing prayer requests should be.
Since a novena is a powerful form of prayer, we may be tempted to abuse the graces God gives us through a novena. It is in our fallen nature to, at times, expect particular answers to our prayers. We may see or hear testimonies of novenas that "never fail." Such descriptions seem to make us think that the novena itself is a means to get whatever we want. We must renounce the temptation in seeking to manipulate God in our prayers. God does not change, and so, the real object of prayer is changing ourselves.
Even the most sincere prayers do not come with a guarantee that we will get what we desire. However, God will always give us an answer. The answer may not be what we expect, and it could be the complete opposite of what we think that we want. Our Father knows what is best for us. God answers us according to His will on the basis of our needs, not solely our wants. Let us be like Jesus at Gethsemane in that we may pray God's will be done.
We should prepare for our prayers to be answered in the same way God answered the apostles at Pentecost. Without a doubt, the gifts of the Holy Spirit were a direct answer to their novena prayers. However, these gifts were so much greater than a moment of great, yet temporary, feelings. The gifts bestowed to them were a spiritual preparation for the trials, and even martyrdom, that lay ahead of the apostles.
Even when the apostles greatly suffered, the outpouring of the Holy Spirit enabled them to live in joy and ecstasy. Filled with the Holy Spirit, the apostles suffered with grace and conformed more closely to Christ while suffering. Seeing the glorious fruits after praying for nine days allowed the apostles to trust in God's will. So, trust in God's will, and the outpouring of the Holy Spirit, along with the eternal joy that comes from Him, is the real intention of our prayers.
ST. LOUIS DE MONTFORT
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